If you're wondering what that girl's thinking that's sitting across from you in Starbucks you're probably in for a surprise. Women are never thinking what guys might assume... except when they are talking to a guy they are really interested in. Let's say the Starbucks is busy and she's reading a book, something for class with lots of respect tied up... you know, with Strong Identity attached to the name. Maybe it's Psychology or Women's Communications or Shakespear's greatest deaths or whatever...
Thing is she's into it. She looks up, you make eye contact and then she quickly looks down again. What to do then? What is she thinking? She's thinking a lot of things. Hoping you don't come over and talk to her, hoping if you do that you're not weird and if you're weird that you won't stay long.
Here's how you overcome those three situations.
#1. When you first start a converation with a girl she's wondering how she can get rid of you... she just doesn't know if she's going to like you so habit tells her to get ready to blow you off... it's just habit.
Destroy that idea fast! How!? Tell her you have to go and then start the conversation. "I have to get going but" "I have to go meet my friends but" "I have to meet some people but" "I have to get back to my friends, but"
Get it? Now she doesn't have to worry about getting rid of you.
#2. Next she's hoping you're not weird. How do you seem like you're not weird? Don't face her with your body, keep it turned away at some angle with only your head turned toward her, almost as if you're about to leave. Weird people hover, cool people have somewhere to go... now!
#3. Now she's wondering exactly when you're going to leave with half her brain and with the other half she's listening to whatever you're saying... whatever opinion you ask of her be sure to NOT agree with her answer. Then tease her for it! Then tell her it's silly!
Boom! You got it! These work. Follow them. Flirting made easy.
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Ways to Ask Girl Out
Ways to Ask Girl Out
Every girl wants to be asked out in a way they will remember. They want to be the object of attention for a cute, fun guy and approached with confidence and a little bit of cockiness. In order to ask girls out in this way guys have to get into the habit of talking to girls in a cocky and confident way.
There are several factors that come into play when talking to women in this way. You want to have a good idea of what you're talking about and talk with an air of authority but at the same time you want to be open to hearing her opinion as well. When asking a girl out a guy should always ensure he's on the proper footing by talking small talk before asking the big question.
This means finding out how she's been and what she is up to. This is what women find attractive. Maybe, if the circumstances permit, also find out a little about what her dreams and aspirations are. Women are very interested in talking about themselves if they feel comfortable. Your job is to make them feel comfortable and so they can open up to you and build a connection in their mind. They want to know you're a strong man but also someone they can consider a friend in the future.
Then after you've talked about other things and she's comfortable then you can ask her out. Suggest something you can do as a date, something that is obviously a date. Dinner is a great example because if she says yes she is aware it's a date. If you ask her for coffee or to go see a show she may just assume that you want to do something with her as a friend.
Ways to ask girl out and what women find attractive are often the same thing. Look for clues as to how you're doing from her body language. If she puts a hand on you then she is definitely interested.
Every girl wants to be asked out in a way they will remember. They want to be the object of attention for a cute, fun guy and approached with confidence and a little bit of cockiness. In order to ask girls out in this way guys have to get into the habit of talking to girls in a cocky and confident way.
There are several factors that come into play when talking to women in this way. You want to have a good idea of what you're talking about and talk with an air of authority but at the same time you want to be open to hearing her opinion as well. When asking a girl out a guy should always ensure he's on the proper footing by talking small talk before asking the big question.
This means finding out how she's been and what she is up to. This is what women find attractive. Maybe, if the circumstances permit, also find out a little about what her dreams and aspirations are. Women are very interested in talking about themselves if they feel comfortable. Your job is to make them feel comfortable and so they can open up to you and build a connection in their mind. They want to know you're a strong man but also someone they can consider a friend in the future.
Then after you've talked about other things and she's comfortable then you can ask her out. Suggest something you can do as a date, something that is obviously a date. Dinner is a great example because if she says yes she is aware it's a date. If you ask her for coffee or to go see a show she may just assume that you want to do something with her as a friend.
Ways to ask girl out and what women find attractive are often the same thing. Look for clues as to how you're doing from her body language. If she puts a hand on you then she is definitely interested.
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